As frenchy used to say is it fact or belief.
What is my life mission? I have come to the conclusion that it tends to change every few weeks depending on my feelings at the time. To better reach my long term goals, I need to commit to a course and really drive towards it. At the moment I am being reactive, swaying with the wind, while I should really be Proactive.
That is another way to look at it in terms of relationships. i can either be the reactive person and wait for the other to reciprocate, or I can be the proactive party and organise the event. It does not mean a person is not interested if they don’t organise anything, they coul’d be the reactive type.
So, how do you keep dicipline on yourself? Set routine, segmenting times, doing work in the morning, clearning distractions, reminding yourself of your goals.
it is a quesiton of focus and writing. if i put my intense concentration to it then i can do. if i do not then i cannot. what is the answer quit social media, quit the internet. Maybe it is better to restrict my google usage per day.
- do not search new jobs if i have not finished my backlog of previous saved. Save jobs are indicators that i want to apply
- again, no browsing clickity websites – it jus gets my mind into a dopamine news hungry machine and reduces my concentration
- if i need to focus, perhaps reading a book will be most beneficial,
- clear my download folder – weekly and get rid of superflous items
- google is one of my greatest time wasters – go for a walk instead
i have trouble putting selling ideas because of my own high expectations. But if i look at it logically, i do not need to be the top candidate, just get the the interview and it will work at well.
5 Percent a day 